They lied sometimes the grass is greener on the other side of the fence.

They lied sometimes the grass is greener on the other side of the fence.

So I just wanted to share My story. I’m a 47 year old mother of 4 boys. I also have 2 step sons. So 6 boys totalled. I was married to a man for 18 years. He was a waste of air he did nothing. He would work long haul trucking and leave me and the kids to starve.

He was abusive verbally and physically. I was a house wife no job skills and a broken back. Over the years I did things I’m not proud of to take care of my kids. Why I stayed so long I’m not sure. Maybe because I knew what it was going to be. There were no surprises I knew he was an add and how bad it could be but at least I knew what to expect. He put his hands on me one night and my sons all being older teenagers jumped in this time. Boy did they kick his ass.

Not gonna lie I enjoyed it a little. But the point is I left. I was single for a year and half just working on me, finding out who I was as a person again. We all seem to lose ourselves. So I ran in to an old friend we started hanging out fell in love and now live happily ever after.

Don’t be a Wendy wasting all the years with the wrong guy. Know your worth, know you have a right to be happy and lived. Its not good for the kids if moms not happy healthy and loved.

Your soul mates are out there but you can’t find em if your wasting time with the wrong person. Stay lifted ladies.