Hi ladies, 30 y/o single mom of 2 kids with one on the way. I was added by a friend a while ago and just have not made a post yet but right now i could really use some advice. If you don’t mind.
I get told by everyone everyday how STRONG i am. Taking care of my kids on my own. Making sure they have everything they need. Keeping this roof over their head. People tell me, “ i don’t know how you do it. Your kids are so well behaved.” And i really feel guilty sometimes because they are speaking so highly of me when i don’t view myself the way they view me. I don’t feel strong. I don’t feel like i have everything under control all the time. And when it comes to parenting i feel like i am winging it most of the time lol no joke. At the end of the day I’m alone and i have no one to lean on but myself. It’s depressing.
Im trying hard to snap out of this feeling. I want to be confident in being a strong woman and not just be like, no I’m not strong I’m just doing what any mother SHOULD do. You know?
Soo i dont know if this makes any sense but i needed to vent. I hope this is ok, if not delete it.
These are my babies