I’ve noticed that we’re quick to bash the man without really knowing the whole story.

Ladies, we have to be careful wit what we say. I don’t believe this a man bashing page. I’ve noticed that we’re quick to bash the man without really knowing the whole story.

A part of being a friend, building one another up and being STRONG is to be honest with one another. We have to be very careful with giving relationship advice. I love to see marriages and relationships work out and blossom so we shouldn’t be so quick to tell someone to leave without knowing the whole story.

Quite naturally if it’s abusive and harmful you need to get out but if it’s something that can be worked out through counseling and\or changing your behaviors than I say work it out. I see too many women telling other women to leave or get out without even knowing what’s going on.

I understand we want to encourage each other and help but be careful about the message you’re sending because we don’t want to cosign that “victim” mentality. There may be times where we are wrong in the relationship and need to change our behaviors but we don’t tell the truth about that because we want pity and for someone to always cosign for us.

That’s not teaching strength my dears. Lets build each other up by gently telling the truth and just being there. Much love to all you beauties.